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The Way of Love

July 19, 2017 by DoneWithReligion

In our world today there seems to be a lot of talk in the Christian world of standing up for our beliefs and doctrines. It seems we feel this is the best way to show our devotion to God and be a witness for Him.

I am not so sure we are going about this in the correct way. As Christians we are getting to be known more for what we are against and being unloving rather than showing the love of God to others.

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A lot of us go to a church building on Sunday and sing and smile and listen to a sermon and think we have fulfilled our duties for the week. All day we are feeling good and close to God and think everything is good.

Then Monday hits and we go grudgingly off to work with a frown on our face and feeling down. We may be in a bad mood and snap at our fellow employees and try to make them feel as bad as we do.

It seems we forget that Christianity is not a religion or a one day a week life. As followers of Christ we are to let Christ live through us in the strength of the Holy Spirit. We are to let his love flow out of us to touch those we come in contact with throughout the day.

Rather than try to win people over to our way of thinking by pointing out their mistakes and shortcomings, rather than condemning them and making them feel like outsiders we should be allowing the love of Christ to touch them. We should be accepting and treating all people like we want to be treated.

While Jesus lived in bodily form on earth he constantly spent time with those the religious crowd would not even think of being around. He spent time doing things that the religious leaders thought were wrong and against their religious laws. They could not even accept him as the messiah because he was so different from them and what they thought was a godly way to live.

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Christian people seem to pick out gay people to be the worst sinners around and we make atheists our enemy rather than being a fellow human being. Many whites and blacks cannot get along nor can people of different religions. We have women who hate men and men who want to demean and dominate women. We seem to divide ourselves up based on the label we apply rather than seeing another human being who many times wants the same things in life we all do.

When it comes to pointing out sin, I do not believe it is our job to do so. Sin is sin and God will convict people if there is sin to be dealt with through the Holy Spirit, not us. We are called to love God, live for Him and let Him work in us. We are also called to love one another, which means we pass on the unconditional love of God to all we meet along the way.

Rather than fighting, arguing and trying to prove our way of thinking, we should follow the leading of the Spirit for ourselves. Let each person make the decision what is right for them between God and the other person. Live your life in love and under the guidance of the Spirit, letting your life be a witness of the love of God.

Jesus accepted people for who they were, just the way they were and did not show condemnation toward them. As followers of Christ we are to do the same. It is not our job to be the judge of others, pointing out their sins and mistakes and treating them like second class people. The Holy Spirit will convict the world of sin where conviction is needed. We do not need to do the job of the Holy Spirit, we are here to be Jesus to all people, loving, accepting and treating everyone with respect no matter who they are or what they believe.

In our world today with all the discrimination and unloving ways of the world and even of the Church, we are to allow the Holy Spirit to love through us to touch others and let them know they are accepted and cared for, and in God’s eyes they are loved beyond measure. Love is the way of God because God is love. Stop the unloving and condemning attitudes and let those you come in contact with each day know they are loved and accepted just for being themselves.

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Posted in Acceptance of Others, christian living, Community, Love of God | Tagged acceptance, atheist, discrimination, LGBT, Love of God | 6 Comments

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  1. on July 20, 2017 at 8:43 PM DoneWithReligion's avatar DoneWithReligion

    Thanks for the good comment. I appreciate it. I know what you mean about the phrase.

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  2. on July 20, 2017 at 8:39 PM DoneWithReligion's avatar DoneWithReligion

    Thank you jem. I appreciate your encouragement too.

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  3. on July 20, 2017 at 8:37 PM DoneWithReligion's avatar DoneWithReligion

    Thank you for the comment, and for the link to your article. I appreciate it.

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  4. on July 20, 2017 at 8:10 AM jmwe29's avatar jmwe29

    Well, all I can say is, AMEN! I have seen too much biting and devouring over the years while the world watched. You said it all- it’s the Spirit’s job to convict, not ours. Our command is to love. Period. Too many Christians want to “lord it over” others, and that leads to pride and being just plain rude. There is NEVER an excuse for being overbearing and rude with anyone. After all, who has perfect doctrine? Who has everything right? No one. I used to hear “My Bible says…” all the time, and I learned to hate that phrase. You know some condescending, arrogant remark is coming!

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  5. on July 20, 2017 at 3:27 AM Jem's avatar jem

    I love how you put this so simply and so clearly. Thank you for the encouragement that you give in writing these messages and affirming the faith of others – mine in particular. Love most definitely is the Way!

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  6. on July 19, 2017 at 9:49 PM Brendan Birth's avatar Brendan Birth

    Reading this post actually made me think of some of the contrarian ways that Jesus handled people at times. There were Gentiles and Samaritans (who were outcasts religiously, much like LGBTQ+ people today) that Jesus actually asked for help from and even exalted (Parable of the Good Samaritan). And then there were Pharisees (who actually were very close to Jesus theologically as I recall) who had a strained relationship with Jesus.
    Also, P.S.: With LGBTQ+ stuff, I recently wrote a post on the whole “love the sinner, hate the sin” issue: https://blindinjusticeblog.wordpress.com/2017/06/20/addressing-love-the-sinner-hate-the-sin/

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