We hear a lot of talk about thinking outside the box or doing things outside the box. Many of us as christians these days think of the box in a different way.
Many of us when we hear something about the box or outside the box we think about the modern-day church. We think of a building where like-minded believers gather once a week to worship and learn about God.
The traditional church today is basically known as a box or four walls of brick, mortar and wood where people come in and separate themselves from the world and from believers of different interpretation and beliefs.
When we talk about outside the box we are talking about living outside the walls of modern-day religion and the traditional institutional church. We talk about no longer participating in the weekly service, listening to one person do all the talking while we sit there silently looking at the back of head of the person in front of us.
Fellowship to us is not sitting silently. Fellowship is communicating and associating with fellow believers as a regular way of life each and every day. Meeting together as God brings about the opportunity, getting together for a meal or in our homes to talk and get to know one another.
To us church is not a building or an organization with its doctrines and interpretations, meetings and such. Church is the people who are following Jesus on a day to day basis, loving God and loving others. It is living outside the walls of a building and accepting people who not only believe like us but people who see things differently than we do.
Does that mean that being in the box and worshipping inside a building is wrong? Does it mean those within the box are not trying to follow Jesus? Of course not! God works within the building and outside the building. Many good things happen within the organization, but for some of us we feel there is a better way.
For my wife and me, along with thousands of others, we have moved outside the box. We have become very unsatisfied with the man-ordained organization and of separating ourselves according to denomination, doctrine and interpretation. We feel that when Jesus said he would build his Church he was not talking about any type organization, denomination or man-led system.
For us Church is people who daily live under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. It is daily depending on God and His Spirit for guidance, learning and understanding. We love God and want to show that love to others by loving our neighbor, whoever that may be. We want to be loving, kind and accepting to everyone, not just to those of our particular group or belief.
If you are inside the walls of a traditional church organization and you are happy there, stay there and serve God as He leads. If you are in a church and are unsatisfied, or if you have left the organization and are questioning your decision please do not feel guilty. Put you trust in God and seek the guidance of the Spirit.
Realize that the Church is the people of God. Forsake not the assembling of yourselves with your brothers and sisters, which means we need one another for fellowship and encouragement but we do not have to be in a building or organization sitting and listening to one person do all the talking. Feel free to walk outside the box and love each and every one of those God brings into your life day by day.
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Thank you for this.
Really needed to hear it.
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Thank you. Yes, that is how I am treated. It’s sad really. They claim to be witnesses to a dying world, but they can’t even accept the idea that others have that church isn’t for them. I’m gonna keep going. I’ve never been one to care what others think anyway.
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It is sad that people within the church system or interested in it are usually the ones that do not understand and many times treat those of us who have left like ‘back-sliders’ or someone who has lost their faith. If they could only understand that is not the case and we are actually looking for a more meaningful fellowship with our Father and his followers. There are several people we have found that have left the organization and we get together now and then, but most of those who are going through the same thing are friends online. Hang in there. Thanks for commenting.
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My husband wants to go back at some point to the institutional church. I told him today that I will not. He told me that this made him sad. He mistakes me not wanting to go to church with not wanting to have a relationship with God. Unlike you, I don’t have other believers to fellowship with. Maybe I need to be more intentional but I’m still pretty mad about the church and those in its walls who seem to display their insensitivity and rigid ideas about what having a relationship with God should look like. Because of that, it’s been hard for me to locate people like myself who are done with the church. The church culture continues to be a damaging one.
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Thanks for commenting Jordan.
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Here is a great workbook on how material religion is gone. Enoy! DoneWithReligion posted: “We hear a lot of talk about thinking outside the box or doing things outside the box. Many of us as christians these days think of the box in a different way. Many of us when we hear something about the box or outside the box we think about the modern-da”
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