I do not know about you, but the verse in Hebrews 10:25 about not forsaking the assembling of yourselves together sure gets quoted a lot when it comes to attending church or not attending.
Once someone finds out my wife and I have stopped attending an organized service each week, the first thing we usually hear is this verse.
Truth of the matter is, I do not think this verse is even talking about what we call church.
As I have stated before, church is not a building or a place. Church is the people of God, those of us born into His kingdom by grace. Church is not an organization, it is an organism. Church is not a one day event, it is a daily lifestyle of people loving God and loving others.
When reading the verses preceding this verse, you find it is talking about how we are now granted permission to enter into the Holy place, not a building, but into the presence of God. This happened when Jesus died and the veil was torn from top to bottom.
To me, this verse is saying that we need our brothers and sisters in Christ for encouragement and to stimulate one another to love and good deeds in Christ. It has nothing to do with an organized religious service in a building. It has everything to do with loving and communicating with other Christians.
One of readers of this blog, José Arroyo made the following comment, which goes along with this thought… “we assemble to motivate each other (to) love and good works…exactly what I didn’t get in church when I attended. Nevertheless, I can assemble with one or two, and Jesus is there to motivate us himself. Our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ. That makes a threesome, enough for an assembly”.
When you think of countries where Christianity is against the law and churches are closed down, do we think the Christian people are wrong for not attending a service every week? They get together in small groups in houses or where-ever they feel they can meet safely. It may not be more than two or three people.
Another reader, Viki Wieland Manera, made this comment…”I have only been out of the church for <1 year, but I am finding the assembly of just 2, 3 or 4 is 100x more powerful than my former assembling with 200. There is deeper meaning and honesty. The masses for me created a falseness and mimicry that I was never comfortable with – even after 20 years of it”.
Jesus said where two or three gather together in my name, there I am in their midst. We do not need buildings or large groups of people to gather to fulfill this verse about assembling. We do need each other, no matter if it is meeting at home, or meeting for dinner at a restaurant, or getting together in a park. The important thing is to love God and love one another and be available to our brothers and sisters in Christ to encourage and build them up.
An interesting comment made by Terrence Williams said…”this verse stresses to me the absolute difference between “assembling” and “gathering”. A box of Legos can be constantly gathered together but it only takes shape to represent the desire of its creator when it is assembled by him. Then it is ready to perform the function it was created for. So is the body of Christ. Therefore, those who put all their eggs in the basket of Sunday church, it is they who have truly forsaken the “assembling” of themselves together. They are constantly gathering but never really assembling”.
Let me again point out I am not against church or those who attend. My wife and I were part of the weekly service for years, but over the past couple years we have found that for us, it makes more sense to be outside the walls of religion and seek meaningful fellowship each day with our brothers and sisters in Christ rather than continue to sit in a pew listening to a select few participate. We believe in the priesthood of all believers and that it is a daily lifestyle not a weekly event, with everyone being equally important parts of the body.
A more in-depth study of this topic can be viewed at the following link, written by my good friend David Yeubanks of truthforfree.com: Click here: http://www.truthforfree.com/forsaking-the-assembly/
(Originally posted on June 10, 2015)
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Thank you. I appreciate you reblogging this.
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Thanks for the comment.
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Reblogged this on I ONCE WAS LOST and commented:
“When you think of countries where Christianity is against the law and churches are closed down, do we think the Christian people are wrong for not attending a service every week? ”
I agree with this. Maybe you do not. That is ok. That is your right.
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HERE! HERE! Amen!
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Thanks Leoni.
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Dietrich Bonhoeffer (great german theological thinker) worte in his letters from prison to a friend in December 1943 “By the way I don’t miss weekly service. How come?” Like him 🙂
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I understand jem. It is sad that it is so hard to find true love and fellowship in a meaningful way. It is nice to find like-minded brothers and sisters online, but not the same as face to face meaningful fellowship. Thanks for the comment.
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So right. I love that you mention that its daily fellowship where we love and motivate each other. I’m getting a lot of motivation from online – like here – but I do miss the daily interaction with fellow lovers of Jesus. I found a Sunday hug and a message was not enough to keep me going. So often I think we as Christians are being starved by the diet we are fed and the little and the infrequency of it. But it’s the love that is the essential ingredient that is so often missing even on Sundays.
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