by Jim Gordon
In a day when many feel it is the job of the Christian to point out the sins and mistakes of others, I personally do not see Jesus being that way.
Jesus associated with all kinds of people and he showed love toward them. He was genuinely interested in them and accepted them. That does not mean he always agreed with them, but he accepted them as they were. He treated them with love and respect.
Acceptance does not necessarily mean we agree or condone the actions of another, it means we are kind, respectful and show the love of God to them. We obviously are not all going to agree on things, yet we should be able to treat one another with kindness.
Many say we have to point out the sins of others and warn them of impending doom or we are not fulfilling our obligation as a Christian. Yet I feel that we are told the Spirit will convict people of changes that should be made. The Spirit will draw people to God. We are not called to do the work of the Spirit, we are called to show the love of God to all people.
My opinion is that showing love and acceptance to people is more in line with the way Jesus treated others. He did not condemn, he did not hate, he did not associate only for ulterior motives of getting people to join him. In fact, the only people Jesus seemed to have issues with were the religious leaders who thought they were so much holier than others. They were mad at Jesus for associating with people they determined were the sinners and lower class of the day.
For me, rather than point out sins, rather than show condemnation and many times down right hatred towards people, I would rather do what Jesus tells us to do. Love God will all your heart, soul, strength and mind and love your neighbor (all people) as yourself.
We love through the power of the Holy Spirit within us. Love and genuine friendship will draw people into conversations and respect for one another, thus providing an atmosphere where we can all learn from one another and respect one another.
Unfortunately, one of the major issues many christians seem to have is in regard to LGBTQ issues. I am not sure why, but people who consider this to be a sin jump on this issue more than anything.
I do not believe being LGBTQ is a sin, but whether you are LGBTQ affirming or not, there is no reason to treat people with hate and contempt. Whatever you think about LGBTQ, right or wrong, affirming or non-affirming, be respectful, kind and show the love of God to all people. We all deserve to be treated with respect, with kindness and with equal rights.
We are all made in the image of God. We all have our own interpretations and opinions. We each have to follow what we feel is right for us, but we do not have to force our views on others.
Accept each other for who they are and follow your convictions for yourself. There is no reason to be hateful toward anyone. We are all loved by God just the way we are now. If there is anything that needs to be corrected or changed in us, the Spirit will gently persuade us in the way we should go. It is not up to people to do the work of the Spirit.
Love and accept others. This means LGBTQ, atheist, people from different religions, races, genders and nationalities. We do not all have to agree. Show each other love. Love makes more of an impact on people than does hatred, condemnation and forcing personal views on them.
Remember we are not told to go force our views and beliefs on others. We are told to love God and love our neighbors as ourselves.
Thank you Thomasina for your comment. I appreciate you taking the time to do so.
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Thank you Kim. I appreciate you taking the time to read and comment on my article.
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Yes. Yes. Yes. Pretty much what I’ve been thinking about lately. It’s so easy to judge others and feel “superior” to those lousy sinners. Just that when I point my finger at someone, four of them points right back at myself.
About the LGBTQ issue… I’m thinking that wether or not it’s a sin (I don’t say one or the other here), it’s just a sin. Like stealing. Or using drugs. Or lying. It’s said in the Bible that no sin is bigger than the other. The only sin that’s raised “above” others is ridiculing the Holy Spirit, that will not be forgiven. All others are equal. That’s what seems to be forgotten by the biggots. Me? I just try to leave it to God. I’m not clever or wise enough to solve issues like that.
I love your take on this: If there is anything that needs to be corrected or changed in us (the others), the Spirit will gently persuade us (them) in the way we should go.
Thank you!
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I just found your blog, Jim. This is an awesome post!! Jesus was our example of how to be gentle and respectful, many Christians forget this!
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Thanks for the kind remarks. Remember that the Spirit lives within us and we have fellowship with God whether in a church or not. Hope you continue to find encouragement from the postings on this site.
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Thank you.
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Thank you for your example of lovingkindness. If I had been hearing this kind of talk from the pulpit, this kind of admonition instead of the fearmongering, nationalism, and stone casting, I might still be going to church. So glad I found your blog, and I look forward to your posts.
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“It is not up to people to do the work of the Spirit.” That pretty well sums it all up, doesn’t it? Nice job.
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Thank you Jem. I appreciate your encouragement.
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Excellent, as usual. You never disappoint in your simple but beautiful statement of love. Thank you, Jim.
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